A beautiful phenomenon tilted by the devil to suit his purposes has seemingly wrapped almost all of us in a cage that look impossible to be free from. This is how the enemy has used and is still using sexuality as a weapon to destroy this generation.
Every Christian is commanded to avoid premarital sex. Every Christian is to flee away from lust. The topic of lust, fornication and adultery seem to have being over emphasized in our churches. Sadly, many Christians are still fornicating. A whole lot of Christians out there are still struggling with masturbation and pornography. Very few Christians have being able to bring LUST under submission. These are not the only group of Christians this article is for, but especially for the Christians I would term under the group "Sex starved Christians". These are Christians that do not partake in the 'act' but they think a whole lot about it. It is the controlling thought in their mind, the secretly pleasuring thought, the thoughts that cannot be spoken. They wish they could freely partake in the act and not be condemned for it. They secretly feel like they have being denied a pleasure of life, as though they are missing out of life. These is one of the reasons why Virginity has been stigmatised as well. Most Virgins are even ashamed of their status. If they would have their way, and if it wouldn't affect their status quo in the church, and if it wouldn't paint them as sinners, then they had rather be trending too.
The sex starved Christian. Mat 5:28
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
(KJV)
The pleasure in the thought alone is equal to committing the act. We have to come to an understanding of our body being the temple of the Holy Ghost as much as we have to understand when the bible says bring your flesh to subjection. Sexuality is not an evil phenomenon, No. Having sexual urges sometimes doesn't make you a Satan's child, rather it is what you do with this thoughts, the defiling of God's temple that is the sin. Your ability to control this thoughts and not be controlled by them makes a huge difference.
So you are there, and in your secret place; you murmur and whine as how God is not sending the right man fast and how you not settling down early enough and all of that. Know ye today that sex can never be a good enough reason to settle down.
I proffer to you the only solution I know. Talk to Jesus. Many of us pretend to God as though he doesn't search through us. He knows, so talk to him about. Be candid, be truthful, be sincere. Tell him to help you out. We all need help with our thoughts and we need to play our role by staying clear of provoking materials. Do not tempt the spirit, flee from all appearances of evil. Flee!!! Do not be caught in this satanic web. Set an example, set a pace, Everyone might be doing it but YOU, a royal priesthood cannot do it!!!!
