Thursday, September 4, 2014

Somebody said...

I read this nd decided to share with my blog paddies:

Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get
back to normal after you've had a
baby...somebody doesn't know that once you're
a mother, "normal" is history.
Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by
instinct...somebody never took a three-year-old
shopping.
Somebody said being a mother is
boring...somebody never rode in a car driven by
a teenager with a driver's permit.
Somebody said if you're a "good" mother, your
child will "turn out good"...somebody thinks a
child comes with directions and a guarantee.
Somebody said "good" mothers never raise their
voices...somebody never came out the back
door just in time to see her child hit a golf ball
through the neighbor's kitchen window.
Somebody said you don't need an education to
be a mother...somebody never helped a fourth
grader with his math.
Somebody said you can't love the fifth child as
much as you love the first...somebody doesn't
have five children.
Somebody said a mother can find all the
answers to her child-rearing questions in the
books...somebody never had a child stuff beans
up his nose or in his ears.
Somebody said the hardest part of being a
mother is labor and delivery...somebody never
watched her "baby" get on the bus for the first
day of kindergarten or on a plane headed for
military "boot camp."
Somebody said a mother can do her job with her
eyes closed and one hand tied behind her
back...somebody never organized seven
giggling Brownies to sell cookies.
Somebody said a mother can stop worrying after
her child gets married...somebody doesn't know
that marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-
law to a mother's heartstrings.
Somebody said a mother's job is done when her
last child leaves home...somebody never had
grandchildren.
Somebody said your mother knows you love her,
so you don't need to tell her...somebody ISN'T A
MOTHER!

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

THE FORGOTTEN DIAMOND

Ashley turned the beautiful stone over and over again in her
hand. “Are you really giving this to me ?” she whispered in
awe and wonder. The thought that her father was giving her
this priceless diamond seemed almost too much to
comprehend.
“Yes, my darling daughter, I am giving you that diamond.
Love and cherish it, and keep it ever in your thoughts.”
Ashley threw her arms around her father’s neck. How she
loved him! She couldn’t imagine life without his love.
For the first several months after Ashley’s father gave her
the diamond, she guarded the diamond as she would her
own life. She spent hours gazing upon it, then went and told
everyone she knew about her father’s marvelous love. Her
heart of gratitude showed in everything she did. She was
kind and loving toward others because her thoughts were
focused on her father’s kindness to her. She was always
eager to serve and praise her father because her thoughts
were completely consumed with him.
I’d like to stop here and say that Ashley faithfully treasured
her diamond for the rest of her life and continually lived in
the same joy she had those firs few weeks. But I’m afraid
that would not be true. Ever so gradually, Ashley began to
become accustomed to the diamond she’d been given.
Although the diamond itself never diminished in value one
bit, she stopped thinking of it as much throughout her day.
While she was still kind toward others and told others of her
father’s love, she did so more from habit and duty than from
gratitude and joy. Her words sounded like hollow
recitations instead of heartfelt realities.
“Ashley, can I talk with you?” Ashley’s friend Eliza asked
one afternoon.
“Of course,” Ashley replied, wondering what Eliza could
want.
“The diamond your father gave you—can you describe it to
me? And can you tell me what that diamond means to you?”
“Why, of course I can,” Ashley replied. She stumbled
through a description that sounded strangely vague even to
her.
Ashley’s encounter with Eliza awakened Ashley’s sleeping
conscience. I have forgotten to gaze upon the diamond my
father gave me! I’ve forgotten to let it bring me joy.
Saddened at her folly, Ashley slowly walked upstairs and
knocked on her father’s study. One look at her father’s face
showed Ashley that he already knew how she had neglected
his treasure.
“Come, my dear, let’s go look at the diamond again
together,” he said as he gently wiped her tears.
With that, Ashley’s father led her to the special case in
which she kept her diamond. Ashley broke into a fresh set
of tears when she saw the diamond. She had forgotten how
beautifully it glittered and glistened! Her heart felt
overwhelmed once again by the incredible gift that her
father had given her.
“Oh, Father, please help me to never forget!” she whispered,
looking up in love and admiration into her father’s face.
“Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto treasure hid in a
field; the which when a man hath found, he hideth, and for
joy thereof goeth and selleth all that he hath, and buyeth
that field.” Matthew 13:44

CHANGE- A choice!!!

“But I don’t want to change,” Deborah repeated for what
must have been the fifteenth time that afternoon. For years,
Deborah had lived the life of a pauper. The open sky had
been her shelter; the generosity of passerby’s her income.
Now her father stood before her, offering her what he had
offered her every day of her life—to give her a new life with
him.
“But, Deborah, why would you insist on clinging to your
pauper ways when I offer you a way of escape?”
Deborah could hear the pain in her father’s voice.
Nevertheless, she stubbornly shook her head and replied, “I
don’t want to change,” she repeated again. “I like the way
things are.”
“But just last week, you complained about how you went to
bed hungry. And don’t you remember how miserable life can
be in the rain?”
Deborah paused as she contemplated these points. It was
true. Life could get very miserable out on the streets. But
give up the life she’d known? Oh, no, that she could never
do! She would much rather go on complaining, even while
ignoring the solution to her complaints.
“I can’t change, Father,” Deborah argued. “I’m too set in
my ways. It’s just a hopeless case. I tried a few months
back to give up this life, remember? And the very first day I
was back on the streets! I just can’t help it!”
“Oh, but you could! I would help you! You could come live
with me. I would give you other things to do besides
aimlessly roaming the streets in this fashion. We could have
so much fun together! Oh, do come!” Deborah’s father
reached out his hand as if to invite her to join him in
happiness.
Deborah shook her head. “I just can’t change,” she
repeated.
“You can’t, or you won’t?” The question was made in a
voice barely above a whisper. Deborah made no reply. She
simply turned and walked down the street to continue her
self-imposed miserable life.
Deborah’s father forced back the tears as he watched his
daughter leave. He slowly turned and walked away. He
would come back again tomorrow. Maybe then his daughter
would be ready to accept his gift of love.
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten
Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but
have everlasting life.” John 3:16

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

It's September

Set your Priorities Right
It seems the year as almost ran out or is running out....and it seems like one can't achieve any great thing but that is so untrue....you can, you so can!!!!
Pick up wat you have left and forge ahead. It isn't over until it is over, u don't get to quit in the year until the year ends. So dear paddies, keep your faith...

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Saturday, June 28, 2014


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Perfecting God's love

As we continue to love the imperfect, and suffer through it all, God's love is made perfect in us.

We don't love others because we are so great. We love others because God's love for others is so great.

His love for us is beyond our ability to fully comprehend or measure.

As we do our best to demonstrate this love to those around us, our love grows and flows.

Our love is made perfect as we continue to love the imperfect.





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Thursday, June 26, 2014

BELIEVE

You're moving ahead despite who or what is trying to hold you back.

There is no doubt we all face different challenges in our lives. It's a comforting fact to realize we are more than overcomers because of the victory we have in Jesus.

Take a moment right now and think of every obstacle you have right now, especially the 'impossible' ones.

Now give them over to your Father in heaven.

Now go out and move forward to face your challenge(s) with the same enthusiasm David went out to face Goliath.

No matter how things seem right now, trust God's plans for you and believe you are always moving ahead.

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BELIEVE

You're moving ahead despite who or what is trying to hold you back.

There is no doubt we all face different challenges in our lives. It's a comforting fact to realize we are more than overcomers because of the victory we have in Jesus.

Take a moment right now and think of every obstacle you have right now, especially the 'impossible' ones.

Now give them over to your Father in heaven.

Now go out and move forward to face your challenge(s) with the same enthusiasm David went out to face Goliath.

No matter how things seem right now, trust God's plans for you and believe you are always moving ahead.

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Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Defining Jesus

How do you define Jesus???? Define Jesus @ http:// www.mfmcfmedilag.wordpress.com

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Sunday, June 22, 2014

Rick Warren Quotes (@RickWarrenQT) tweeted at 4:11 PM on Sun, Jun 22, 2014:
Simply enjoying a beautiful sunset and thinking of God in your heart… is worship
Bibby says: Worship is truly of the heart, is a life not an act!!!

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Hi, itz so good to be back. ♥♥

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Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Religion or Christianity

Never mistake one for the other. They are entirely different. Christainity is not an act or a way of people. It is us, it is Life, it is Christ in Us.....

Quote of the day

"Show me a family of readers, and I will show you the people who move the world." - Napoleon Bonaparte, http://www.bq4android.com/android/quotes/getQuote.php?id=376

Word for the day

http://bible.com/1/2CO12.9.KJV And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Bible.com/app

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Seventy times Seven

Forgive and forget
So the scriptures says
Forgive and forget
So we are commanded
I can try forgiveness
But forget??
It is easier said than done
It is a thing of d heart
Seventy times seven
The word says forgive your brother
Seventy times seven
Is 490 if am correct
So what happens the 491st time
If my brother hurts me
Forgive and forget
If you've being counting his sins
Then you've not being forgiving
The spirit of forgiveness
Seek you thou....

Monday, March 31, 2014

MISSING TRUST....1

"Am in a mess, Lauretta. I have no idea what to do; am very confused right now....I told him but he wouldnt hear me out.."Okay, thanks dear". Lucy snapped the phone shut. Pacing around the room seem to be the only visible solution to her right now. She decided to give it a try once more and she picked up her phone.
The phone rang endlessly with no answer. She kept trying until the network decided to give her an excuse "the number you're trying is not available..." that was the end. She sat helplessly on the cushion and hang her head on her hands.
Dave walked into his living room to see his wife sleeping on the cushion. He felt like sniffing life out of her. He had place all his hopes, dreams and even his breathe on her and what did he get in return!!!......
Dave couldn't even bring himself to think about the scenario again....His wife suddenly became conscious of her surrounding and she sprang up from the cushion.
Dave, let me....
Don't even say a word. I don't want to hear it.
With that Dave stormed out of the living room.

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Be Inspired

No matter how sad or how lost one's life seem, DRAW INSPIRATION FROM CHRIST.

Be Inspired

No matter how sad or how lost one's life seem, DRAW INSPIRATION FROM CHRIST.

Be Inspired

No matter how sad or how lost one's life seem, DRAW INSPIRATION FROM CHRIST.

THE PROCESS OF WAITING

Patience is a rare virtue but a necessary one. The period of waiting for some takes longer than for others. In most cases, we rush out from our waiting period and the outcome, though deceptive at first is a very disastrous one.
The process of waiting is a period of preparation, refining and test of character. After the waiting process, all these features achieved can now be used to make one soar higher. It is a common saying that a talent/gift/ministry/anointing can take you places but only your character keeps you there.
#1: Train yourself in your waiting period.
#2: Build your character and keep it.
#3: Do not be envious of others pace.
#4: Never allow your patience run thin or run out....
Itz a process loved ones, tables turn.

Sunday, March 9, 2014

BEULAH- MY EARTH SUIT


>Let me give a quick background to this piece.
>
>It's about natural and spiritual beauty.
>About 4 years ago, God began to lead me through a change in my lifestyle. The way I dress was largely affected. Overtime I dropped makeup, jewelry, trousers.
>
>I was "born again" before then. I grew up attending mfm.  But I just didn't understand. Now I understand.
>Reflecting back at how it was 3years ago- my spiritual life remarkably improved. Worship became more than emotional frenzy. Praying made more sense. The Fruit of the Spirit began to matter so much more. "Being born again" had a better meaning to me. I know that the changes I had made was the catalyst. These added to my certainty that God really wasn't comfortable with the way many christian women dress /besides what the scriptures say/.
>
>I have a burden especially for christian sisters who are truly sincere but don't know about this subtle device of the enemy.  And so here...I call this piece "My Earth suit"
>
>***
>
>My Earth suit.
>My face is oblong.
>My hair grows curled and spiral from the roots.
>My eyebrows grow like a bush.
>My eye lashes are quite long and full.
>I've got teary eye bags.
>I've got facial spots and blemishes.
>I've got dimples.
>My ears are perfect.
>My fingernails are cute.
>My fair skin is sun-burned.
>I am really skinny.
>I have a petite stature.
>Now, I am God's intricate design. My designer label reads G.O.D. Made in Heaven. I'm not an assembly line product. I was carefully and uniquely crafted by the hands of a Creator who goes by the name "the perfection of beauty". And so, just the way I am, I am beautiful. I am African. I am Natural.
>I need no add-ons. I require no artificials.
>
>I really do not need a mascara to make my eyes look darker or lashes longer than they truly are. I don't need to lie.
>I do not need to use eye-pencils. My face is not a drawing board.
>I have no use for red or purple lipsticks. For I am not a clown.
>I do not need to fry my hair. Every kink in my natural hair is so beautiful!
>Hair extensions are unnecessary, God's work is complete.
>With care, my facial spots eventually fade away. Some choose to stay longer but I am still Beulah anyway.
>I do not need a concealer. My eye bags aren't what make me. And those things aren't what make me truly beautiful.
>The color of my skin isn't who I am. The shape of my head just isn't me. This is an earth suit that might die and decay eventually.
>
>My earth suit Vs my soul.
>One is temporal, the other is eternal.
>One is the container. The other is the content.
>One is totally corruptible. The other can put on the incorruptible.
>I choose my soul. The real Beulah is in my soul.
>I may leave her to decay but she will never really die.
>So I give her my total attention. She needs to stay beautiful. She must not decay.
>
>The Word is my daily mirror.  The Blood will bleach away my soul's spots and blemishes. To makeup for my ugly original, I choose love, joy, peace, faith, kindness, goodness, gentleness, long suffering, self control and wisdom. These are totally of the Spirit of God. I should appear Mary, Lydia, Joanna-like. I should appear and be Christ-like. I choose spiritual beauty.
>
>I shouldn't use silk, cotton, linen, wool, rubber nor hair extensions. I don't need to alter my hair by perming, relaxing, straightening, bleaching or coloring.... I truly have no use of nail polish or cat-claws. These are totally of the spirit of the world. I shouldn't and do not want to appear Jezebel-like neither to a moderate nor excessive degree. I do not need vain beauty. It's too dangerous for the eternal me.
>
>Besides, (Jesus took lashes for my lashes. He took nails for my nails.)  He took pain for my paints. His face was mutilated for mine. His skin was ripped open for my skin. So I better stay conformed to His own image. We better stay conformed to His image. He knows He gave you curled hair. He can pick your hair in a sea of others. He knows He didn't give you red lips. He knows He gave you neither nylon nor indian hair. He made you fearfully. He made you wonderfully.
>
>Ladies, Friends, (let's not play russian roulette with our souls) because we want to look "beautiful". You know the very few preachers who teach this truth aren't fools. Let's not follow the majority christians cos it's the minority christians that walk on the narrow way.  Why allow the temporal corrupt your eternal days? Our lifetime here is only a tiny fraction of the total timeless time of our existence. 1Thess 5:23 says our spirit, soul & body must be found blameless. So, it's not just about "what is in your heart". Although, sometimes what's on your body is a reflection of your heart. Give no place on your body to the enemy of your soul because that little distortion of the hair or skin is big enough to hold one down from being rapturable. That light distortion is heavy enough to slow down your spiritual growth pace. Our physical image must remain totally original, we shouldn't edit it. We should groom it but not edit. Now, grooming and editing are two different things. It's our souls that need to be edited. She's eternal but ugly in her fallen original.
>
>These beauty instruments aren't really after your work for God, your money or "anointing". Nah...those may remain intact. They have become silent killers used by spiritual wickedness in high places whose real target is the soul. They use "harmless" and subtle tactics. Their wickedness is epic. We war against wickedness here but you must realize that the greatest wickedness is in high places...accusers of the brethren. The magnitude of the enemy's disgust and hatred for God and His children is something many christian don't know. If we all did, it'll show.
>
>(Stop being so obsessed with image. If anyone ever tells you that you only count if you fit in, they would be held accountable for counterfeiting. Its  better to be an outcast now than be cast out then. He said come out from among them and be ye separate from the superficial things of this world. That's the only segregation that Christ has ever accepted.) Not even denominational segregation because phil 3:16 says let's abide by the same rules. Let us mind to same thing. So its a question of who is properly keeping the bible rules. And I tell you, very few. People say my life my rules. Christians say my life God rules. And this is not about legalism. Its about loving God. For He said if you love me you'll my instructions. Eph 2 says we are saved by grace through faith. James 2 says what is faith without works dead. So there are certain rules you must keep. Our faith walk is on a grace road that lies between two extremes of legalism and indulgence. Neither of both is good. Keeping these rules isn't what saves you but indulging disobedience is dangerous for you.
>
>If you change the natural to unnatural you distort His creation and like the homosexuals you leave Him absolutely no choice. You think its not possible? How do you think God will judge someone who stole a pencil and another who robbed a bank with a pistol? They committed the same sin.
>
>Ignorance is no excuse because many, very many of God's own people, who are not aliens from the commonwealth of Israel, who are not strangers from the covenant of promise, who have a hope, who are not without God in the world, will still perish because of Ignorance. But thank God you are no longer ignorant of this.
>
>Our natural beauty is a composition of our journey to authentic spiritual beauty. So my advice is value the eternal. Stay natural. Be you tiful.
>
>I beg you to heed my advice today, bcos these words I've spoken to you are life and truth but this is your life and I cannot impose anything on you. But this I can promise you- going completely natural will not kill you. God bless you.
>
>- Beulah Olutayo 2014
>
>Those in bracket were adopted from other poets' pieces.

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

THE UPSIDE DOWN WORD

The language of home and mission field is still used by many churches and agencies, but it fundamentally misrepresents reality.

The map of global Christianity that our grandparents knew has been turned upside down. At the start of the 20th century, only ten percent of the world's Christians lived in the continents of the south and east. Ninety percent lived in North America and Europe, along with Australia and New Zealand. But at the start of the 21st century, at least 70 percent of the world's Christians live in the non-Western world—more appropriately called the majority world.

More Christians worship in Anglican churches in Nigeria each week than in all the Episcopal and Anglican churches of Britain, Europe, and North America combined. There are more Baptists in Congo than in Britain. More people in church every Sunday in communist China than in all of Western Europe. Ten times more Assemblies of God members in Latin America than in the U.S.

The old peripheries are now the center. The old centers are now on the periphery. Philip Jenkins brought this shift to popular attention in The Next Christendom. Yet many Christian leaders of the global South resent the implication in Jenkins's title. They have no desire to be another "Christendom"—wielding monolithic territorial and political power. Nor do they wish to be any kind of threat to the West, but rather to help Western Christians in the struggle to shift from survival mode to mission mode—in their own lands.

Can the West be re-evangelized? Only if we unlearn our default ethnocentric assumptions about "real" Christianity (our own) and unlearn our blindness to the ways Western Christianity is infected by cultural idolatry. It may be more blessed to give than to receive, but it is often harder to receive than to give. That reverses the polarity of patron and client and makes us uncomfortably aware that what Jesus said to the Laodicean church might apply to us in the West: "You say, 'I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.' But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked" (Rev. 3:17).

Normal Christianity

Most of the learning and unlearning we must do in this new era is no more than relearning the original nature of biblical Christianity, which very quickly became polycentric. Acts 1:8 can give the impression that the early church spread out in ripples, from Jerusalem to Judea to Samaria to the ends of the earth. But in fact, Acts tells a more complicated story. Antioch was where followers of Jesus were first called Christians, and it became the center of westward-oriented missionary work. Paul saw Thessalonica as a radiating center for the message in Macedonia and Achaia. Ephesus clearly became a key metropolis for Christian witness in Asia Minor. Paul was eager to make Rome a base for planned work further to the west in Spain. Jerusalem was simply one center among many.

Christianity has never had a territorial center. Our center is the person of Christ, and wherever he is known, there is another potential center of faith and witness. So, as mission historian Andrew Walls has said, the emergence of genuine world Christianity and the ending of Western assumptions of heartland hegemony simply marks a return to normal Christianity, which looks much more like the New Testament than Christendom ever did.
The world we are in....the upside down world

LOVE

Better than a shining armour

Beautiful than all rubies put together

Purity at its core

Precious than gold and all gems

Stronger than a lion

Braver than a warrior

Is Love from a pure soul.

Show love. Peace.

Saturday, February 22, 2014

I inspire you to inspire yourself and let yourself inspire others.
BIBBY

Friday, February 21, 2014

Quote

IT TAKES YOU TO DESTROY OR MAKE YOURSELF. NO ONE CAN DO THAT FOR YOU!!!